"I know that the Spades are the swords of a soldier.
I know that the Clubs are weapons of war.
I know that Diamonds mean money for this Art.
But, that's not the shape of my heart."
~Shape of My Heart, Sting~
A few years ago I attended a Stitches East event in Baltimore, MD. I walked about 4 blocks from the parking deck to the convention center where it was held; a path dotted with people sleeping on benches and grates. I was present enough to notice them, but that's all. I'm sure my actions could have been read as "yeah, I see you, but I've got someplace to be." I watched other people walk past, most without looking at this sight of the separate and unequal.
Off we went to an event that celebrated creative expression. Even though we had just walked past five people lying on the street, we were excited to be with other creatives. A segmenting of the heart and mind, something didn't feel right.
But we did it again the next day.
I tried to make myself feel better. I knit squares, I reminded myself. In fact, I'd bet most of us have used our craft to make charitable donations. Crafters are some of the most altruistic people I know. We do it because we care and because it feels good. As humans, we've got it like that. Studies back up the zen of giving:
“It’s mysterious that human beings among all mammals are so hyper-social that our brains are wired to help other people, even strangers. There’s very little evidence that other animals have that capacity,” said Paul Zak of the Center for Neuroeconomics Studies at Claremont Graduate University.
But aren't wired for connection too?
While I appreciate having the option to package, stamp, and send, I'm going to challenge myself to make more of a connection; giving from level two. So I'll continue to knit the squares, make the caps, and crochet the afghans and:
- Visit a hospital, rock the babies infected with HIV and feel the tingling of tiny nerves synapsing for survival.
- Deliver a meal and a blanket to a family.
- Cover someone -- literally.
What are you willing to do on level two?